If you have recently met your elderly loved ones, you might have noticed some signs that their current house may be too much for them to handle. Some older adults choose to move to retirement communities while some would prefer to continue living in the comfort of their own homes.
However, the decision to move your parents out of their current home should be deliberated carefully. It is a life-changing decision for them and we want to be sure that we are making the right choice. Learn the danger signs to help you determine if your parents need to downsize their home.
Mobility Problems
As your parent ages, they will face physical challenges. It becomes increasingly difficult for them to move around their home, especially if there are several levels. Going up and down the stairs is not only tiring but also dangerous for them. Moving to a smaller home with lesser or no stairs would be better and will allow your parents to retain their independence longer.
Falls and Slips
With reduced mobility comes an increased risk of slips and falls. Slippery floors or slipping carpets can result in dangerous falls. While such risks do not warrant a move, you can take some preventive measures such as installing handrails in bathrooms and kitchens, as well as installing safety alert systems. If your parents still have frequent falls despite these installations, you might have to consider moving them to retirement communities.
Inability to Keep Up With Housework
Houses, especially large ones, require lots of maintenance. If you noticed your parent getting behind on household chores or leaving tasks undone, such as dirty dishes piling up or floors not being swept in days, you can hire housekeepers to come in on a regular basis to help them clean. Should your parent be resistant to the idea of having a stranger in the house, then you will have to speak to them about downsizing.
Neglect of Personal Care
Any changes in your loved ones’ upkeep of personal grooming could indicate mobility issues. You may need to consider engaging a personal support worker (PSW) to assist your parent with bathing, dental care, and meal preparation. Should your parent require more extensive care, alternative living arrangements would be better.
Memory Problems
Older adults are often forgetful. They may forget small things like where they have placed their keys or miss out on a payment or two. However, if your parent is exhibiting symptoms like being unable to recognize you or problems communicating, this means that they could be having a cognitive condition. In this case, your parent should move to senior living communities for more targeted care.
Loneliness
Senior isolation and loneliness are common problems amongst elderly that live alone, and this has been exacerbated by the pandemic which had forced many to stay home for long periods of time. Loneliness can have negative effects on the senior- they may experience increased levels of stress, new bad habits like smoking, or reduced appetites.
Making The Move
Regardless of whether your parent is downsizing or relocating to a retirement community, moving can be a hassle for them. You can hire senior moving services that will help make their move easier. Be cautious when selecting a moving service provider and read reviews before making a decision.